When we meet someone, we begin the mind-numbing game of trying to decipher every little word and move they make, every approach they take in all the games people play, trying to figure out if they like us or not. I can't for the life of me figure out why we do this to ourselves. I'm not saying that I am innocent. Oh no, you don't become a love writer without many, many, many hours of relationship self-analysis. But I have come to the conclusion that the straining over figuring out a man's emotions is silly. We're working too hard. This isn't complicated.

Provided you're not receiving totally mixed signals from him, you should just follow your instincts in determining whether or not he's smitten with you. You can go analyze this to death of you want, but what it comes down to is what you feel deep down. Chances are your intuition about his feelings is probably spot on. However, for those of you who still want to read into things, here is a quick "he loves me, he loves me not" cheat sheet. And hey, if all else fails and you still find yourself confused, just ask him.

If you meet his buddies for the first time and it's clear that your existence isn't news to them, that's a good sign. Men don't tend to chat up their pals about women they aren't pretty interested in. I would say something about calling the day or two after you first go out but sadly, even the most intrigued and smitten of men can still fall prey to that old notion of having to wait several days to call a woman.

You know just as well as I do that if he doesn't call the next day, it does not mean that he is not interested in you. But, if his next call comes at 11:30 on Friday night, this guy is more ass than class. If that's what you want, then go for it. But a booty call isn't likely someone who will be interested in meeting your parents. Those calls aside, if he calls within a week of your date, he's interested.

Men who are taken with someone typically want to be a little sweet and romantic. And what's the best way to do something out of the way and special for his new lady? Knowing things about her.

You have to know the facts before you can plan your romantic assault. At least, I hope most men are doing this, otherwise their attempts at romantic gestures will be generic and boring.

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