Sad but true, nearly 30% of married men are inside the category 'cheating married man'. It does not matter where these men look for their prey, they exist. This means if you are presently a single woman chances are pretty good that you will cross path with one of them -- whether or not he is a sheep in wolf's clothing. Another bad news is that women are very emotional being that many women are trapped in an emotional rut of being the third party. I said trapped because no woman intentionally has an affair with acheating married man. Part of their conscious mind tells them that they should break it off but as you know, it is easier said than done. So how can you avoid getting into this kind of unhealthy affair? You have to avoid even getting too close to a married man in the first place. This is important as a woman's logic is only intact in the beginning of a new relationship before completely replaced by illogical emotion. Some married men will try to hide their status so let's just read on to find out how to spot a cheating married man from far away.
The following are some warning signs to know whether or not you are involved -- or are close to becoming the other woman:
First sign is that he hardly make plans in advance. It is very hard for a cheating married man to make plans in advance and to actually commit to it. He would therefore cover it up saying that he is a spontaneous flexible kind of guy. This is also related to the next sign i.e.: He has no integrity as he always cancels plans in the last minute. It's no surprise that you sometimes wonder whether or not he will show up for a date 5 minutes before the pre-arranged date time.
Dates are often on weekdays rather than the prime Friday or Saturday nights. He seems to be busy on the weekend as well as holidays such as Valentine's Day, Christmas, Easter etc. Yes he probably would make it up to you such as asking you out the day after the Valentine's Day to celebrate it late -- or early.
In terms of phone calls, you would notice that he hardly answers phone calls though he would return them -- sometimes at a much later time. Also, when you are actually talking to him on the phone, the phone call is often cut short due to his signals or battery running out etc. And when he is actually with you, you may notice that he has it turned off.
Plus, it seems that your relationship with him is not known to the outside world i.e. his friends and family. You may never meet any of them, and he may even lie about his real name, address or work information -- depending on how much he wants to let you know about his life, as well as how much risk he is willing to take.
Lastly a sign that you should be aware of as well as all the other signs above is that a cheating married man may seem more understanding. He can complain much less about you -- or not at all. This is because he doesn't see a big future with you and also, he wants to make sure he doesn't miss a chance to get physical with you. This is why most extramarital affair relationship usually is all physical by nature.
Overall, dating is a fun experience that in my opinion worth taking the risk for. However, be aware that women especially are very emotional being. This is why rather than playing with your emotion you should completely avoid any situation that may potentially put you in an emotional trouble. Only date available men -- both physically and emotionally.

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