Article Written By: Francis David
Bullying is a critical issue found in almost all schools, particularly in middle and high schools. Senior children often prey on younger or vulnerable students using methods which are both delicate yet effective. Bullying occurs almost every day in all schools across the nation. Even though each and every child is different, those who bully others do share some common characteristics.Let us look at some of the common traits we can find in those bullies:Common Characteristics:• Those kids often are often found to be reckless, irresponsible, confrontational and dominant.• Such children can get easily frustrated and annoyed.• They lack the much needed virtue of empathy or compassion towards others.• They often tend to violate rules and regulations and view violence or brutality in a positive way.• Teenagers who bully are often physically much stronger than others.It is quite difficult to point out a single factor as the reason of bullying among kids. There are possibly several aspects that can place a child at jeopardy for harassing his or her colleagues or peers. On the other hand, it has been established that those children who bully are more prone than their non-bullying colleagues to come from their homes with certain characteristic factors.Family Risk Factors:• A lack of affection and attachment on the part of parents contribute much to the bullying nature of a child.• Exceedingly unfettered parenting which includes a lack of setting limits for their children's behavior can also cause a high risk.• A lack of guidance and supervision by parents can also be a major factor for kids resorting to bullying.• Ruthless and severe physical disciplining at home is also considered to be one among the family risk factors.• An incident of bullying at home is also believed to cause harmful effect in kids. Violent and Disruptive BehaviorsMany studies have revealed that bullying can be a precursor to other serious disruptive, rebellious and violent behavior. Teenagers who get involved in bullying are more likely than their peers to indulge in various activities like the following:• They often get into regular tussles with their peers or colleagues.• They may get injured or injure others in a brawl.• They resort to destroying or stealing belongings of others.• Bullies along with their gang or with their girl friends indulge in drinking alcohol and smoking.• They intentionally skip school and miss their classes and that may even lead to dropping out of their schools.• Bullies carry weapons often intended to protect themselves.Does your child exhibit any of the characteristics given above? Monitor your kid. Spend time with him and instill in him the virtue of compassion, before it is too late. Prevent and protect your child and present to him a bright and prosperous future.Academic instruction isn t the only responsibility teachers have in today s classrooms. More and more, teachers are being called on to teach students about values ... things like making good decisions, the showing of respect, taking responsibility, choosing friends, and having a positive attitude. It s a responsibility that could be overwhelming, considering the limited hours available in a school day, the number of kids in the classroom, and the diversity of backgrounds and personalities each child represents.Character Education by Just Do The Right Thing" is a practical and powerful tool that equips educators to tackle values training with confidence.By: Francis David
This Article Has Been Published on Fri, 24 Sep 2010 and Read 866 Times